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bearisgray 04-11-2013 01:02 PM

A lot of time-consuming things are under-appreciated.

In my opinion, housework, cleaning, cooking, and child-care are among some of those activities.

isewman 04-11-2013 01:09 PM

There's time, if I'm not working on a quilt, or hand quilting, I would loose it. I have people say to me, how can you do what you do. I tell them I enjoy, and happy to make quilts, for family, friends, grdkids. I tell anyone, come to my house, and I'll show the happiness, I get out of quilting.

BertieD 04-11-2013 02:58 PM


Originally Posted by mighty (Post 5993715)
Yes is is sad but loving to do it makes it all worth while!

Not only that, I tell my husband it's cheaper than mental health therapy and it keeps me outta the bars! Haha.

LynnVT 04-11-2013 04:55 PM

I agree with all the good thoughts here. I know there are some who are not interested in what I do, but the other side of it is that many people who come to my house are in awe of quilting. People who don't do it consider it almost magical - "I could never do that!" is what I often hear. I know they probably could if they just tried, but not everyone has the patience to stick with it. I am proud of my work, but I also know I am not a prize winner. As I was working on my current project today, quilting away with a borrowed Sweet Sixteen, I was aware my lines were not perfect, my points not all precise. But I am having so much fun with it. I stopped and pulled out a bunch of quilting because it was really off, but I know we will love having this on our bed. I'm going to put it into a local quilt show fully knowing it is not a prize contender, but still wanting to share my artistry. Feel sad? Not a bit. It is the joy of the process and satisfaction in my own work. I know I have improved a lot and have far to go. Perfection is impossible, so just enjoy the journey!

berryberry 04-11-2013 05:15 PM

I quilt for my own enjoyment. For those who like it, great. For those who don't, sorry. There are many hobbies that different people enjoy and to each their own.

I know this summer when my family and I are sitting on one of the quilts I made under a tree or at the beach, we will be enjoying it.

judylg 04-11-2013 05:31 PM

I like what I like and do not worry what others have to say about what I do. The one thing that does bother me is the lack of respect of others not appreciating the time and effort that goes into sewing something together. I would really have to care a great deal for someone to say to me to whip a quilt up for them and for me to agree with doing it. Not going to happen, with my own kids that is different, I will for them. And that is it. Call me miserable, I do it because I like it.

twinkie 04-12-2013 02:42 AM

Most works of art (including quilting) are difficult to re coup the time involved in them. However if you were to go to Amish country in Pennsylvania, and see the $$ prices on them, they are not cheap. 15 years ago, there were several prices over $1,000. And, well worth it.

Dragonomine 04-12-2013 03:53 AM

We are always our worst critics

maryfrang 04-12-2013 04:10 AM

I always remember, I enjoyed making the quilt because I love quilting. I know the person will someday, will love and appreciate what I did for them, and understand how much the quilt is really worth. I also love when someone whats a quilt but do not know how to make it, and ask to learn how to make it. That is my biggest joy and reward.

mom-6 04-12-2013 04:16 AM

While I agree that there are those who do not appreciate our efforts in this art form we all love, the appreciation is not the motivation for doing it.

I discovered years ago that hand crafted items (be it quilted or painted or embroidered or whatever other) are appreciated by some but not all and rarely sell for an appropriate $ amount in relation to time spent.

Has that stopped me from doing the creative projects that I love? Not at all! I just don't do them to sell, I do them for my own satisfaction.

And when I donate items to be raffled or auctioned I don't ask how much my item sold for, only how much was raised total. And I only send small items as I've seen that often they raise more proportionally than something big.


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