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Mamagus 09-28-2009 02:57 PM

A friend from high school who now lives in Wales asked me to do two lap quilts for her out of T-shirts and pjs belonging to her late mother. One is for her dad and one is for her.

Today I got the package... two t-shirts, a piece of pjs maybe 12 inches square and a pair of plaid sleep pants. She also sent me two packages of fat quarters with 16 fat quarters total. The fat quarters are bright colours, red green, yellow, orange, blue. One T-shirt is lavender with a bird house screen print and the other is aqua with darker coloured dragonflies. The pants are peach plaid. And the piece of pjs is yellow with blue cows on them.

I knew I'd have to add fabric that's not a problem... but I am absolutely stumped. I was thinking she'd send maybe a half dozen T-shirts and several pairs of PJs.

Does anyone have ideas? I am OK with doing one for her... I am sure it will work but lavender, peach and aqua in a quilt for a man?

HELPPPPPP!!! :roll: :( :shock:

thismomquilts 09-28-2009 03:12 PM

Use one t-shirt per quilt and let it be the center block and work your way around it - filling in as you can. Maybe add a row of blocks (some kind you make up) to make it longer than wider... If I were doing it - I'd do what I could with what she sent - adding manly for his, feminine for hers - the husband will not care what color it is - it represents his wife!!

MadQuilter 09-28-2009 03:13 PM

You are proof positive that no good deed goes unpunished. Can you write your friend and see if she has more T-shirts and more scrappy left-overs?

Mamagus 09-28-2009 03:19 PM

Thismomquilts, good idea... I am thinking.

Mad Quilter, she lives in Wales and went back there right after her mom's funeral. I think she maybe took only a few things across the pond with her.

Lisa_wanna_b_quilter 09-28-2009 03:52 PM

Maybe you can use more than the picture on the front of the T-shirt. Could you use the back for pieces?

Maribeth 09-28-2009 04:04 PM

I think you should call her and explain the need for more fabric or t-shirts and get a better idea of what she wants. I went through the same for a co-worker who lost her two-year-old granddaughter. I made one quilt for her and one for her son and dil. We talked several times during the initial stage and she looked at the blocks as I worked along and made changes/additions to the fabrics (I think she changed the border five times). I needed to keep talking with her, I just couldn't be responsible for that personal a project on my own. I know anything I did would have been loved and I don't mind the work, it's just that (for lack of a better expression) I am NOT the decider, that is what I would tell her, anyway, hee-hee.


Ninnie 09-28-2009 04:11 PM

So sorry, I am sitting here laughing as i read the colors!!
It is true, no deed goes unpunished. LOL

Mamagus 09-28-2009 05:12 PM

Thanks Ninnie!

I am hoping she sees this project as a crazy quilt kind of thing... cuz it ain't gonna be my best work that's for sure!

ladybugquilter 09-28-2009 09:50 PM

I would ask her what her moms favorite colors were and see if you can add them in somehow. Or maybe see if you can find some fabric with items that were special to her mom. I know when I made my dad a quilt with my moms shirts, I added a ladybug to the back as she always thought the meant good luck. As someone who has lost her mom I think your friend will cherish the quilt no matter if it has one block with her moms things or ten. That one block will still feel like her mom is holding her when she is wrapped up in it.

Also maybe with the 12" square you could divide that up for both quilts and make the label out of that.

digby 09-28-2009 10:49 PM

I can't wait to see the pictures of the finish results - I wouldn't worry too much about the colour scheme for a man, it's not like he's going to be taking it down the pub with him, and in the privacy of his home he's going to be really happy with the memory that you are giving him.

I think it's a lovely thing to do.


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