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humbird 12-06-2010 11:35 AM


Originally Posted by klgreene

Originally Posted by humbird

Originally Posted by klgreene
I lost a leg 3 1/2 yrs ago, and have phantom pain, 24 - 7. Almost 2 years ago I feel in the bathroom and shattered my hip, so phantom pain is worse. I have shoulder pain from having a shoulder replacement 2 1/2 yrs. ago, carpal tunnel from typing for years as well as all the crafts I did. And depression because of all this. BUT, when I quilt, I don't think about the pain, it relaxes me. Gives me a reason to get up in the morning. Quite frankly before I got back into quilting, there were many days, I just wanted to end it all. Not anymore. It actually gives me a reason to live. And I thank God all the time that I can do this and so many other things. Oh,and by the way, I'm only 62 so have a lot of good years ahead of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


klgreene, you surly have a lot on your plate. When I read stories like yours I feel like I am indeed very well off phylically! I will think of you next time I feel like complaining because my leg dosen't work so well.....God Bless you.

Humbird....I do have a lot on my plate, but I do have a good attitude. the one thing that really bothers me, is I need help with my wheel chair getting it in and out of the car. But other than that, nothing stops me. I was down on my belly on Saturday fixing the tree skirt, not comfortable, but I wanted it done MY way. Maybe that's what helps me.....I am stubborn as a mule. Life is short and there are to many quilts I want to make, and to many things I want to do. As I sit here writing about my problems, I am watching Discovery Health channel. And there is a young man, with half a body. So no matter what is wrong with us....someone is so much worse off.

Life, love, and laugh for life is too short.

I think "stuborn" is the key word here!! Way to go girl! Can't keep the good ones down! :D

Mary M 12-06-2010 11:52 AM

For me it is both mental and physical therapy. Chemo damaged nerves in my hands so the physical part of quilting/sewing is helping me regain the use of my hands and fingers. I sit down to quilt or read a quilting magazine and even getting on this board my problems seem to melt away. I absolutely love the people here for they are so special in so many ways. A big hug to all for you are better than many doctors!!

Nolee 12-06-2010 11:59 AM


Originally Posted by sidmona
It sure is for me. I'm so much more relaxed and in a good mood when I quilt; I notice I get very jittery and antsy when I'm not quilting. Maybe that's why my husband lets me quilt as much as I want. LOL

Hey, Sidmona, that may just be a wonderful strategy for getting out of cleaning the house........I'll get real jittery and tell him that the only thing that will calm me down is to quilt. HA HA.......I can see a movement beginning across the Quilting Board family!!!!

DoxieMom 12-06-2010 02:34 PM

mar32428, I love your reply!!!



Originally Posted by mar32428
All of the above and at almost 83, then some. From sewing all my life I have learned patience, perseverance, sharing, money management, color coordination, peace and most of all, a great self pride and confidence for all the lovely things I have made.


wildyard 12-06-2010 03:11 PM

Quilting also serves as physical and mental therapy for me. I have chronic pain from a neck and shoulder injury, fibromyalgia, and all the accompanying problems, including arthritis. I had to quit working as an LPN, and go on disability. Quilting has given me a way to be constructive and productive again, not to mention useful. I love making quilts for those who have a need for them. Being able to contribute again does wonders for my morale.

ddrobins1956 12-06-2010 03:42 PM

I don't know how I'd get along without my quilting. It keeps me so busy. I'm truly never bored. There are not enough hours in the day for everything I have planned to try and make.
Also, I have made some wonderful friends through quilting. The best thing that I ever did was join my quilt guild. It's the best and my quilty friends are very important to me. Also, I made a wonderful friend thru this board. We met up with each other last fall. We happen to live close to each other, and we've become very close. Quilting has become a blessing in my life.

hikingquilter 12-06-2010 03:46 PM

2 years ago my daughter, then 22 and in college, was in a car accident and suffered a traumatic brain injury. She was left with several cognitive obstacles to overcome. She had always been very athletic and an honor student. It was difficult for her to accept that her brain wouldn't work the way it used to. She had memory problems, aphasia, balance and coordination problems, and became depressed. One day she came with me to the LQS and was instantly drawn to the batiks. She said she wanted to make a quilt. She had never sewn before. She picked out several FQs and one fabric to pull them together. We decided to use HSTs. Each evening I would give her instructions and she would work on it during the day while was at work. (She couldn't decipher written instructions at the time.) The quilt turned out beautifully. It was her own pattern and is reversable (her idea, too!). It was wonderful therapy for her. It helped her re-learn to follow directions, re-built her self-confidence and overcome depression. She's hooked now. She made a quilt for her friend's 2yr old daughter and a handbag for a friend. She's become a fabric-aholic like me too! By the way, she doing very well today. Back in school (with a little help from student services), volunteering at Shriners and looking forward to working with other young people in medical re-hab.

LC1562 12-06-2010 03:47 PM

Amen sisters, I don't have any physical problems, but working in an office for 8 hours a day can get to you. I love to sit and sew for a few minutes and all my troubles go away and when hubby is not home I do alot more than a few minutes.

jitkaau 12-06-2010 04:22 PM

I have a friend who has MS and she does beading, wirework, quilting and mosaics. Her work is exquisite and I would encourage anyone to think positively as your doctor suggests.

Marysewfun 12-06-2010 04:33 PM

I recently retired and am now realizing how much stress I left behind. When I go upstairs to my toy room (machines and projects) my whole world changes - my mind goes into another world and it feels so good! I just finished an embroidered Tree skirt this morning - and while my husband thought I was a bit daffy making it - the creative fun just zapped me away! It is so good for us to keep our hands and minds busy, and we are so lucky to have a worthwhile outlet.
Marysewfun @-->- (rose)

donnalynett 12-06-2010 04:35 PM


Originally Posted by QuiltnCowgirl
I realized this week, as I stayed inside the warm house quilting, that I now have 2 forms of "therapy" for my peace of mind. My horse therapy in the spring/summer and now quilting therapy for fall/winter when it is too cold out to ride. I may get aches & pains in this old body (bad neck, elbows, back, and so on), but I don't care because I'm super happy when I'm doing them! :D

Me too! Going to the barn and being greeted by a nice warm muzzle makes my day....even after quilting all day. Donna

Tudey 12-06-2010 04:38 PM

I have undiagnosed ADD, possibly ADHD and since I discovered quilting 9 years ago, it has really been very therapeutic for me. It's the only thing I have ever been able to sit and do for literally hours at a time!

Net 12-06-2010 05:38 PM

I'm a caregiver and it's theraphy for me. And a great way to express myself.

CoriAmD 12-06-2010 05:42 PM


Originally Posted by DebinNY
Sure is for me... Not physical therapy but definately mental therapy... Life's problem are put on hold for a little while when I get behind my machine.

well said DebinNY! I agree :)

purple_butterfly 12-06-2010 06:14 PM


Originally Posted by mrs_uncle_fuzzy
I have PTSD from my sons violent death when he was 13. Quilting and sewing tend to keep me sane and and on track if I skip a few days of sewing I get panic attacks. The doctor says different things work for different people when I am angry my quilts are bright and bold and filled with abstract slashes, when I am depressed they are darker and and somber when I am unaffected and happy they tend to be whimsical. I think quilting sooths my soul. It is the best therapy I have found!

So sorry about your son :cry: I'm glad you found something to ease your pain.

I've had anxiety and depression most of my life and after a painful relationship breakup I broke down and sought counselling. She put me onto a craft group and I started quilting. We all have the same problem so it also helps to have people around that understand. My group and my quilting are my therapy and I honestly don't know where I'd be without them.

2livesdown7togo 12-06-2010 06:36 PM


Originally Posted by klgreene
I lost a leg 3 1/2 yrs ago, and have phantom pain, 24 - 7. Almost 2 years ago I feel in the bathroom and shattered my hip, so phantom pain is worse. I have shoulder pain from having a shoulder replacement 2 1/2 yrs. ago, carpal tunnel from typing for years as well as all the crafts I did. And depression because of all this. BUT, when I quilt, I don't think about the pain, it relaxes me. Gives me a reason to get up in the morning. Quite frankly before I got back into quilting, there were many days, I just wanted to end it all. Not anymore. It actually gives me a reason to live. And I thank God all the time that I can do this and so many other things. Oh,and by the way, I'm only 62 so have a lot of good years ahead of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You go, Katie!!

galvestonangel 12-06-2010 07:25 PM

I am amazed at how many of you have overcome medical problems, mental problems. You are all an inspiration to the rest of us. I have suffered from depression most of my life, I will tell my husband I need to sew more. Actually when I am really depressed I don't want to sew, maybe I can turn that around.

jollyquilting 12-06-2010 07:28 PM

Quilting is therapy. I am housebound and sometimes I can't even use the machine so then I embroider a quilt, I NEED to quilt for therapy.

jollyquilting 12-06-2010 07:29 PM

Quilting is therapy. I am housebound and sometimes I can't even use the machine so then I embroider a quilt, I NEED to quilt for therapy.

kwilter 12-06-2010 07:38 PM


Originally Posted by hikingquilter
2 years ago my daughter, then 22 and in college, was in a car accident and suffered a traumatic brain injury. She was left with several cognitive obstacles to overcome. She had always been very athletic and an honor student. It was difficult for her to accept that her brain wouldn't work the way it used to. She had memory problems, aphasia, balance and coordination problems, and became depressed. One day she came with me to the LQS and was instantly drawn to the batiks. She said she wanted to make a quilt. She had never sewn before. She picked out several FQs and one fabric to pull them together. We decided to use HSTs. Each evening I would give her instructions and she would work on it during the day while was at work. (She couldn't decipher written instructions at the time.) The quilt turned out beautifully. It was her own pattern and is reversable (her idea, too!). It was wonderful therapy for her. It helped her re-learn to follow directions, re-built her self-confidence and overcome depression. She's hooked now. She made a quilt for her friend's 2yr old daughter and a handbag for a friend. She's become a fabric-aholic like me too! By the way, she doing very well today. Back in school (with a little help from student services), volunteering at Shriners and looking forward to working with other young people in medical re-hab.

:thumbup: Let her know we're all behind her every step of the way! I, too, suffer from depression and COPD. Can't stand for long and can only walk several feet at a time. However, quilting is my Godsend, too. I love it...learning new things and realizing I CAN do them is so energizing. We're all in this together and able to get past our various challenges and no one would know from the results of our work the limitations we overcame. Hurrah for us. We're special people! YES WE CAN!

IBQUILTIN 12-06-2010 07:41 PM

Quilting is my mental health therapy, my physical therapy, and if I have to listen to one more loud action movie on TV therapy. It is the one thing I can do that seems to block anything else out of my mind.

Jeri6 12-06-2010 11:03 PM

I have Parkinson's Disease and RA. I have always made all kinds of crafts but it is hard now to sit, stand, or anything for very long periods of time. The Quilting is great bcause you have to move. You have to cut, to iron, to lay out patterns, to sew and all of these require movement. So it is great for me. When one position starts to bug me I just move to another step. This Qulting Board has really been fun. You just can not leave here in a bad mood! I have enjoyed and learned so much reading everyones commets. I just can not get off here and continue to act like a witch, you all put me in to good of a mood!

PS Stitcher 12-07-2010 11:09 AM

I have RA and Fibromyalgia. Quilting, sewing and needlework help to keep my joints in motion and help with the depression that go along with these diseases. There are days that quilting is a little easier than needlework for me. But I think that this is the best therapy!

maryjoan 12-08-2010 06:37 AM

Dear Lord, Put all these wonderful women in your loving arms that they always have the overcoming strength to continue using their life saving gifts of creativity. May I always remember that no matter what life brings: aging, mental and physical problems,difficult circumstances, I WILL remember all of you and your example of "ignore, endure and overcome".

Nolee 12-08-2010 10:59 AM


Originally Posted by maryjoan
Dear Lord, Put all these wonderful women in your loving arms that they always have the overcoming strength to continue using their life saving gifts of creativity. May I always remember that no matter what life brings: aging, mental and physical problems,difficult circumstances, I WILL remember all of you and your example of "ignore, endure and overcome".

This was so moving it brought tears to my eyes. I wish all of us could get together and hug each other and truly get to know each other. I have found such wonderful friends here and that prayer is beautiful for all of us. Thank you so much, MaryJoan. It was a real act of kindness.

marmalade 12-08-2010 04:31 PM

Some days it is really tough to stay strong and have a positive outlook. I have fibromyalgia and nerve damage. Sewing, crocheting and doing other "hands-on" activities makes me feel I am still good at doing something and that I really do have worth. I am glad that I can at least continue with this part of my life. It is nice to feel productive, if, even in a small way....

Nolee 12-08-2010 04:44 PM


Originally Posted by marmalade
Some days it is really tough to stay strong and have a positive outlook. I have fibromyalgia and nerve damage. Sewing, crocheting and doing other "hands-on" activities makes me feel I am still good at doing something and that I really do have worth. I am glad that I can at least continue with this part of my life. It is nice to feel productive, if, even in a small way....

I have nerve damage too, Marmalade. I have no feeling in my fingers but thankfully it's not my mind. I can feel pain but no tactile feeling. My problem is that no one knows why. I teach crochet and do it several hours a day. We do need to be strong, don't we?

deanna_1 12-08-2010 05:52 PM

I am so thankful to have this forum for all of us who suffer from health problems and depression. It lets us know we all support each other. God Bless each and every one of you.

mayday 12-11-2010 10:32 AM


Originally Posted by maryjoan
Dear Lord, Put all these wonderful women in your loving arms that they always have the overcoming strength to continue using their life saving gifts of creativity. May I always remember that no matter what life brings: aging, mental and physical problems,difficult circumstances, I WILL remember all of you and your example of "ignore, endure and overcome".

BLESS YOU.


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