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DOTTYMO 10-02-2012 03:18 AM

Shocking comment
 
My friend has just made a white quilt for a friend. It has no colour at all. On showing her son, 35ish his comment was" that is is the best quilt you have ever made" this was an amazing shock to her as she makes very colourful quilts. All the ladies in out group like it and the skill at it was done with the 10 minute blocks but disliked no colour.

QuiltnNan 10-02-2012 03:43 AM

i'll bet it's beautiful.

Sally J 10-02-2012 04:02 AM

I'm sure it is beautiful. My son (29 years old) would have probably made the same comment so I had to laugh with your post. Young men are so strange.

alwayslearning 10-02-2012 04:08 AM

What my hubby objects to is the different prints together. If it was all white, the prints wouldn't be as noticeable!

Raggiemom 10-02-2012 04:09 AM

Everyone likes something different! :) At least he complimented it and seemed to appreciate it.

Tashana 10-02-2012 05:07 AM

My mother, God bless her, is really trying to like quilts because I make them. She just cannot get passed by all the colors and prints. She would probably be mesmerized by your friend's quilt. I still have not made a quilt for my mother. She will love anything I make because it came from me but I also want her to really like the quilt itself. Maybe I will try a one color quilt and see how it goes. Thank you for the idea.

NanaCsews2 10-02-2012 05:09 AM

Ny DH would have made the same comment. He does not like all the bright colors and patterns of fabric in a quilt. The subtleness of one color is more soothing to many people.

HillCountryGal 10-02-2012 05:46 AM

I would think with it being all one color... the design/pattern would stand out. Not a bad thing.

As for the people that didn't care for the quilt... to each their own.

donnaree59 10-02-2012 05:59 AM

Would love to see a picture of it... I've seen wholecloth quilts, but not a quilt made of just one color.

Tartan 10-02-2012 06:02 AM

I LOVE the antique french white quilts so I would probably love this quilt too. I also love quilts with lots of colour and patterns.

romanojg 10-02-2012 06:08 AM

Like the saying goes; beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She should accept his compliment and if she makes him a quilt maybe it should be all white because it seems thats what "he" likes. You have to admit; it is different than most any quilt anyone makes so it would be unique and maybe thats why he liked it so much

Jingle 10-02-2012 06:57 AM

I wouldn't make all white quilt. I think any all one color quilt would be pretty. I like the regular multi colored quilts the best. To each his own.

nygal 10-02-2012 07:03 AM

Maybe it is just his personal favorite quilt that she has made.

katkat1946 10-02-2012 07:04 AM

A lot of men don't like the "busy-ness" and abundance of color, pattern etc the way we do! I don't think it was intended to be hurtful at all.I know that sounds sexist but it's the way it is!!!

TanyaL 10-02-2012 07:48 AM


Originally Posted by katkat1946 (Post 5556636)
A lot of men don't like the "busy-ness" and abundance of color, pattern etc the way we do! I don't think it was intended to be hurtful at all.I know that sounds sexist but it's the way it is!!!

It isn't sexist to acknowledge that frequently there are preferences that are sex linked. The obvious ones are babies and machinery. Women can ooh and aah over a baby sooooo much longer than a man can and honestly enjoy it. Men can discuss the inner workings of cams and pistons without being bored. Not many men get excitied over patterns and colors. Some only want order, limited colors, calm, what represents to them masculine decor. It isn't sexist to admit men and women are made differently on purpose.

Louise Houghtaling 10-02-2012 08:23 AM

Different strokes.....

sewmary 10-02-2012 08:49 AM

My niece-in-law is expecting. Her house is no color (tan walls, not white!) Her nursery will be neutral. I was going to do creams/whites/beiges/tans for her baby quilt but maybe the all-white would be cooler!

BellaBoo 10-02-2012 08:51 AM

My adult DDs will say why did you pick that fabric? or that fabric looks old ladish, or I wouldn't have used those colors. But when the quilt is finished they are the first ones to say I want that!

quiltingweb 10-02-2012 09:01 AM

My daughter doesn't mind the colors of a quilt...she just thinks my quilting detracts from the design of the quilt. :rolleyes: Um, but honey, that's what mommy does. I bet the all white quilt is beautiful and would love to see it.

DOTTYMO 10-02-2012 09:09 AM

Adding info. Using the ten minute blocks and making them into faux cathedral windlow inserts birdie angles and white on white in as ,any ways as possible.

vivnme 10-02-2012 09:52 AM

I would love to see the finished project. Sounds kind of neat. Does anyone have any quilts done with one color?

irishrose 10-02-2012 10:30 AM

Tashana, try shabby chic or cottage colors for your mother. Soft pinks and blues or corals and tans if that's her preference. As a mother whose tastes are changing, I think that might do it for her. Look at the colors in vivnme's avatar.

irishrose 10-02-2012 10:31 AM

Tashana, try shabby chic or cottage colors for your mother. Soft pinks and blue or corals and tans if that's her preference As a mother whose tastes are changing, I think that might do it for her. Look at the colors in vivnme's avatar.

Wonnie 10-03-2012 04:07 AM

The more I think about it the more I think that's a really cool idea. I could see doing the all white quilt and then using a colorful bed runner at the end of the bed....the best of both worlds! I'm curious to know where you find quality white fabric. I can find white fabric but, even at a quilt shop it doesn't seem to be as tightly woven as the other fabrics. Is there a particular company that all of you out there use?

coopah 10-03-2012 04:10 AM


Originally Posted by vivnme (Post 5557069)
I would love to see the finished project. Sounds kind of neat. Does anyone have any quilts done with one color?

We had to buy (no time or desire to make) an all white one when we sold our home 2 years ago. So got one from the "Shabby Chic" line at Target for about $50 for queen size. It's solid white with lots of quilting on one piece of fabric. We use it in the guest room now and it's a good background for my handmade quilts.

nativetexan 10-03-2012 04:59 AM

All quilts can be beautiful. muted colors or no colors as you say too. She did well I"m sure.

judykay 10-03-2012 05:04 AM

I quilted an all white whole cloth quilt for my daughter for her wedding and it came out beautiful & I am very proud of it as there is a lot of quilting in whole cloth quilts. This was done at the beginning of my quilting career (aka hobby) & I had no idea how she was going to decorate and the quilt is always out, sometimes folded and on display and sometimes on her bed.

teddysmom 10-03-2012 05:48 AM

Does the white have a tone on tone design?

jeaninmaine 10-03-2012 05:58 AM

Sounds different. Please try to get a picture of it, I'd love to see how it looks.

MimiBug123 10-03-2012 06:19 AM

I've never thought about using all white, but I'll bet it is really pretty! It wouldn't be too practical around here with 4 doggies, but I sure would love to see it.

teddysmom 10-03-2012 06:19 AM


Originally Posted by jeaninmaine (Post 5559056)
Sounds different. Please try to get a picture of it, I'd love to see how it looks.

I'd love to see a picture, also.

AZ Jane 10-03-2012 06:43 AM

I would not have been shocked except to note that he actually made a comment. That the comment was a compliment is a bonus!!!!! Now you have given me an idea - a solid color 10-minute block quilt!! Hot Diggity!!

BellaBoo 10-03-2012 06:55 AM

I would like to make an all neutral color quilt from light to dark neutrals.

Friday1961 10-03-2012 07:38 AM

I someday want to make an all white quilt. Perhaps the lack of color was just his preference and/or maybe he liked that he could see the quilting so well. Her quilt sounds beautiful.

Friday1961 10-03-2012 07:42 AM


Originally Posted by BellaBoo (Post 5556931)
My adult DDs will say why did you pick that fabric? or that fabric looks old ladish, or I wouldn't have used those colors. But when the quilt is finished they are the first ones to say I want that!

Somewhat off topic but my DIL once told me my scent (Chanel #5) was "old lady perfume!"

MaryLane 10-03-2012 07:50 AM

Just speaks to different peoples' taste. I wouldn't take it personally. I hate yellow. Most people say, "Oh, it is so cheerful. How can you hate it?" I believe it is cheerful for them but to me it is extremely depressing. Just different tastes.

On another note, I know paper piecing is a lot of work but as a general rule I don't like the appearance of most things paper pieced. They look too choppy to me. So, I might say to someone that paper pieced a lot and finally made a 9-patch, "This is my favorite quilt you have made." My taste, not a comment on their work.

sailsablazin 10-03-2012 07:51 AM

I am taking the Free Craftsy BOM club. I proudly took my blocks into a co-worker who quilts, since she had never made some of these blocks. Her comments--"I would have never used THAT color." Hurtful--yes. So I will not be showing my blocks off to her again. Yes, everyone like different things and that is what makes the world interesting. However, comments that are meant to demean (even unintentional) are not necessary. That is why I so enjoy this board....everyone is so positive and praises each other. We are special people!
All WHITE quilt---go for it!! LOTS OF CRAZY COLOR--I love it!

Snooks 10-03-2012 08:19 AM


Originally Posted by DOTTYMO (Post 5555958)
My friend has just made a white quilt for a friend. It has no colour at all. On showing her son, 35ish his comment was" that is is the best quilt you have ever made" this was an amazing shock to her as she makes very colourful quilts. All the ladies in out group like it and the skill at it was done with the 10 minute blocks but disliked no colour.

People are like quilts (ALL DIFFERENT KINDS). Some people LOVE lots of colors etc., but others like simple (styles or colors). This is part of being a quilter (some times we make quilts we like and other times we make quilts that some one else will like), just remember it takes ALL KINDS. I'm sure the quilt is lovely.

Knitnoid 10-03-2012 08:51 AM


Originally Posted by vivnme (Post 5557069)
I would love to see the finished project. Sounds kind of neat. Does anyone have any quilts done with one color?

Summer before last I make a quilt with various neutrals from very light beige to a darker tan. I'm not sure if that's what you mean by one color or not. http://knitnoid.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/nstdone.jpg Then there is the blue applecore quilt I made for my husband http://knitnoid.files.wordpress.com/...applefront.jpg and the blue row quilt I gave my brother and his wife http://knitnoid.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/rowquiltdone.jpg. There is a pink quilt too, but I'm not finding a picture of it at the moment. Seems like I made a couple more blue quilts. I had to use up all that blue fabric from the applecore quilt.

LadyElisabeth 10-03-2012 10:27 AM

I am so blessed, John is able to look at a quilt and see the pattern, colors or not, creativity, workmanship, and ALWAYS finds something positive and wonderful about each one, and not just mine but those made by other people


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