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southernmema 09-03-2011 08:43 AM

Nothing wrong with Plan B!

Quiltinelaine 09-03-2011 09:01 AM

U go girl: I know exactly what u mean. Time to just Enjoy each day with SELF. If we don't appreciate ourselves then how do we expect anyone else to enjoy our company. Time to sew and enjoy with friends. Happy Quilting Hours.

granmalovesyou 09-03-2011 09:12 AM

Enjoy the time at the quilt show and that late night quilting without having to stop until your ready.Love my DH but do enjoy some alone time now and then...

Bren 09-03-2011 10:26 AM

Enjoy! My sister and I always get excited when one or the other of our DH's travel. We can get together and quilt till we wilt.

BrendaK 09-03-2011 10:33 AM


Originally Posted by BuzzinBumble
Sounds like a wonderful time for you to just be you!
My DH travels often on business and he now has one rule i have to follow: He has decreed "While I am gone, Nothing can be adopted that eats, drinks or breathes" He's trying to cover all his bases after 28 years of being married to me and coming home to find a new pet in the family.
So i am sure he won't mind a few quilting purchases!
Have a wonderful time quilting late into the night!

Oh No. Fabric breaths doesn't it. (I just feel that my fabric takes on a life of its own). Maybe you could tell your husband that you would just stab it with a needle. BrendaK

BrendaK 09-03-2011 10:37 AM


Originally Posted by DogHouseMom
When I was dating my husband he had to return to the UK every 90 days to renew his Visa. I dreaded it every time. He still goes back to the UK quite often because his kids live there - sometimes I go along, sometimes not. He also travels on business a few times a year.

In the beginning I dreaded his every absence.

Now I'm just the opposite. I'm not saying I "like" my husband being away - the difference is "me". I've learned to cope with it better. Instead of constantly thinking about him and what he's doing - I concentrate on keeping myself busy. We both enjoy the "vacations" from each other, but not as much as the "homecoming".

Homecoming is a GOOD thing. BrendaK

Sandra in Minnesota 09-03-2011 11:27 AM

Have a great time!

bj riley 09-03-2011 11:54 AM

Sounds like a plan to me!

sahm4605 09-03-2011 11:56 AM

i think that it is about what you might bring home from the quilt show and not being home alone. hehe.

Toni-in-Texas 09-03-2011 12:09 PM

That's how I am when my DH goes to pastors' retreat. This year, it won't happen because I'll be puppy sitting our five grand-dogs and I can't use that many helpers, only the one that lives here full time.

BellaBoo 09-03-2011 12:12 PM


Originally Posted by bamamama
Its just that when he's gone I can quilt as late as I want, I don't have to stop and make dinner until I get hungry and at the quilt show I can buy what ever I want to buy!!!!.


I do that when DH is home or away. :) Honestly the only difference I notice when DH is away is that I miss him. He says the same thing when I'm away.

theresa.redington 09-03-2011 01:15 PM


Originally Posted by Annie68

Originally Posted by bamamama
My DH is leaving for Prague, the Ukraine and Russia on business next week and he's concerned about leaving me alone, but not to worry, there is a big quilt show here next weekend. I somehow think I'll be able to occupy myself. Can't Wait!!!

Sounds like I'm glad to see him go, but I'm not really, I will miss him. Its just that when he's gone I can quilt as late as I want, I don't have to stop and make dinner until I get hungry and at the quilt show I can buy what ever I want to buy!!!!.

Aaaahhh, there's nothing like when the hubbies are away. That extra time to ourselves to do as we please is priceless!
Always nice to have them back home again too.
:)

And that's the true! :-)

Debbie C 09-03-2011 01:18 PM

My husband has been gone a full week on storm restoration here on Long Island since Hurricane Irene. He works for the power company. Sure I miss him, but I'm doing okay - me and my Featherweight!!

Raggiemom 09-03-2011 02:30 PM

I hope you're able to get lots done! Have fun.

twixbar 09-03-2011 02:33 PM

Have a good time. :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

tmg 09-03-2011 03:23 PM

I think I will need to make plans to go myself. I'll just need to leave hubby home.

vickimc 09-03-2011 03:43 PM

since DH retired from the National Guard. 31 yrs. I miss camp. 2 weeks every year. so I know how you feel. Love him, but some down time is good for both of you.

traumaRN 09-03-2011 03:50 PM

Yea! I love when hubby is away! He is leaving for a family wedding on Wed. and I just happen to have the next 4 days off. It's a wonderful feeling isn't it? Do you have any quilting friends? What about a sleepover?

wvdek 09-03-2011 03:51 PM

I love playtime. Enjoy yourself.

madamekelly 09-03-2011 06:43 PM

Just make a big pot of homemade soup, and heat a bowl when you need it. I do this when DH is out of town too! :D

Kas 09-03-2011 08:06 PM

My ex-fiancee lives in Madison. He travels quite a bit to far off places, too. Does your DH work out on the Arsenal? That is where Marty works and where my dad workded. I remember when it took half an hour to get out there. Now it takes about 10 mins from my mom's house. So weird. It is also so weird to connect with people halfway across the country who live in my old stompin grounds! I remember when the VBCC was built! My grandfather and uncle's company did the lighting.

Joyce Ann 09-04-2011 05:15 AM

Have a great time. Sounds like a lot of fun

JenelTX 09-04-2011 05:33 AM


Originally Posted by bamamama
...when he's gone I can quilt as late as I want, I don't have to stop and make dinner until I get hungry and at the quilt show I can buy what ever I want to buy!!!!.

LOL!!! I know just what you mean. I told my husband yesterday that I needed to go to the quilt store at some point, and he said something about driving me there. I said, "Oh no, I want to go without you." I didn't want to worry about him waiting for me out in the car, getting bored while I looked at fabric. I told him I'd go while he watched football. That way, we'd both be happy.

Tinabug 09-04-2011 04:03 PM

When life gives you lemonade, drink it!

Originally Posted by emmamarie
when life gives you lemons,make lemon- aid!!!!


craftynell 09-04-2011 04:46 PM

We have a quilt show on September 15, 16 and 17 in San Mateo, CA. I can't wait. I love going to them. I hope everyone got the free tickets. If not let me know and I will photo copy mine and send it to you. It says we can use photo copys. Send me a private message. Be sure to leave me your name and address.

Jingle 09-04-2011 05:14 PM

Enjoy doing whatever you want, whatever time you want to do it.

SharBear 09-04-2011 05:16 PM


Originally Posted by emmamarie
when life gives you lemons,make lemon- aid!!!!

or a Lemondrop Martini!

My husband travels a lot and while we all miss him I find that the house is kept cleaner and I get a lot more done than when he's here.

Arleners 09-04-2011 07:29 PM

I know what you mean. You love him, but he does cut into your quilting time. I have the same problem. When he is home, I don't get any quilting done. He just gets this sad look when I say I am going to my room that I end up hanging around in the living room. Even if it is just to watch him watch the Mets.
Don;t get me wrong, I am semi retired and he is still working FT so I do get days to myself, but I now don't like holidays because it messes up my routine.
I guess I am getting old and cranky

DonnaMaeE 09-04-2011 07:37 PM

I know how you feel. Mine is going elk hunting for 10 days or so. Time to get to some projects and just do what I want to do - when I want to do it!

amandasgramma 09-04-2011 07:45 PM

Mine just got back from a week of fishing. Came back early ---- Unfortunately I was sick most of that week! I had looked SO forward to getting things done. I understand where you're coming from!

Sienna's GiGi 09-05-2011 02:59 AM

Ha! I hope you have a blast! The last time my hubby deployed I learned to quilt. This time around my goal is to finish all of the charity quilt tops I have, take a few classes and meet some of my new quilting friends from this board. Although I am dreaming of all the quilting I am going to do while he is gone I still dread the time apart.

ging10ging 09-06-2011 06:14 PM

Well enjoy anyway at least you can quilt all you want. Too bad the dates were wrong isn't that always the way. Sue


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