I agree. I recently showed a young woman how to sew a straight seam and helped her make a couple of stuffed birds that had small pieces and curves. They were not perfect...but I gave her encouragement. She makes baby quilts now using panels and loves doing this. She has already sold 2 of the ones she made and now she is teaching her friends to sew and has invited us all to a quilt day party. She is awesome and although the quilts she is making is not pieced or perfectly sewn she is learning and she is spreading the love of sewing to others. We all started somewhere and we all have our level of expertise. Just saying....Encouragement goes a long way and this board is great in helping each other. You have taught me so much.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Admire him for doing it himself instead of asking someone else. Experience is the best teacher!

Hey, give him credit, not many guys would be caught sewing. They all think things are easy till they actually do it.

Maybe he should give it a try! You never know he might learn to be pretty good.

There is nothing to brag about sewing 2 sheets together, except for an inflated ego. He just didn't need to be so obnoxious about it.

At least he did it on his own. Kudos for that! He didn't ask you to do it while he sat and played games on his phone. I hope he takes up quilting and enjoys it for a lifetime. If we can remember back we probably all started with that optimism of "Of course, I can do that! How hard could that be?"

Not many kids sew these days, so I would think the quota of men is even less. Although, it may be the opposite now and more men are sewing. I'm 53, and my sisters & brother would all sew. We made bean bag toys, doll clothes, stuffed toys, and had a lot of fun. My mom taught my niece & nephew to sew. I'm glad so many men are sewing and quilting, because there was sort of a stigma that "it's a girl thing" when I was growing up. That "kid" is probably so proud of what he did and his mom sure is! Let him bask in the limelight, but Oh, the foolishness of youth....

Got to love the young ones ! They know it all but need a lot of help too.

We all had to start sewng on something.

I hope his little foray into the quilting world will yield a life-long passion. Point him to all the great internet resources and encourage him to give it a try. He will soon see that it's much more complicated than it might seem.

At least he gave it his best shot. And he is showing an interest. I think it would be nice to be encouraging and suggest how much fun he would have if he took a quilt class.

He might use the rotary cutter as a pizza cutter as a babysitter did one time with my rotary cutter! I was not happy!

Ooooer Donna. Did you use the rotary cutter on her?

Hee, hee, hee, I was once one of those that figured that since I could sew a straight line I could quilt. What an eye opening experience for me! I now have such respect for quilters and piecers and all those people who can do both and those who can FMQ!

This is an art!

I guess he just does not understand the fine points.

I sometimes see quilts that are terribly pieced, quilted and put together and then the person says "I only put this together in my spare time." "I don't really quilt." They are right, they don't, go do something else. Get on with your other business.

We all got bitten by the bug in one way or another. Maybe this is the start of a lifelong learning experience like the rest of us are sharing. I agree, Mom should get him a very basic beginning quilting book.

Oh, the travails of youth!! I am 89 years old, heading for the big nine-0, and I still call myself a novice!

When I hear these put downs of this young man, I can't help but think somebody feels their sacred domain (quilting) is being threatened. So what if he doesn't know everything yet? At least he got an ancient machine out of the closet and figured out how to work it! That's quite an accomplishment for someone who's never touched a sewing machine before.

And he's right... quilting isn't much more than sewing a straight line! You can make tons of great quilts with just sewing straight lines. The majority of the "art" of quilting is in design and fabric selection, not so much sewing prowess....

And for the lady who said:
I sometimes see quilts that are terribly pieced, quilted and put together and then the person says "I only put this together in my spare time." "I don't really quilt." They are right, they don't, go do something else. Get on with your other business.

This comment is really mean. Do all quilts have to pass some high standard? If someone sews poorly and they are happy with their creation, why not be happy for them? They still have a warm cuddly blanket. And how do you get "good" if you don't start somewhere and keep trying?

I'm just surprised at some of these comments!

My Dad did basically the same thing as the young man in the OP. He had bought my mother a sewing machine when they got married, but she just didn't take to sewing. It sat folded up in it's cabinet. Dad wanted to recover the couch and got the machine out, followed the book step by step, and figured out how to sew on that machine. He made some nice slipcovers and had a real sense of accomplishment.

When I was 11 I opened up that same dusty machine and started playing with it. I followed the same booklet to learn how to thread it up and operate it, and the rest is history!! I'm glad there were no sour old women around to disparage my efforts or I may have given up.

Well first he should read the manual for the trouble shooting. My Dh every once in a while will ask about something. I get the manual out and tell him to read it. If I fix his problem he'll never learn and break something.

I thought it would be easy until I made one. Whole new respect for quilting. That was 12 years ago.

I think his cockiness would get to me, also. I would find a quilt store by him and buy him beginning quilt lessons as a surprise. He'll lose his cockiness after his first lesson. I'd be excited that he thinks he can quilt. That means he's willing to try it. But he needs those lessons and they will be also lessons in humility.