fabric dregs
I have decided that I do not need to use -or keep - something that was given to me. (I am talking about scraps, ufo projects, etc. I am NOT talking about something lovingly made for me.)
The donor may have meant well - or may have been dumping - but I feel no obligation at this point in my life to do any more than say " thank you for thinking of me " with that stuff. In fact, I have decided I do not need to use - or keep - some of the stuff I bought for myself. |
I agree. People knowing you sew will give you just about anything. I had a neighbor who said they were cleaning out his mom's house before she went to assisted living, had a huge bag of fabric that they knew I would want! I figured if nothing else I would take it down (which is what I did) to my mom's Sr Center and let them have at it.
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Free fabric?
Over here over here. (If it's free it's for ME!) |
I agree 100%! I will go through what has been given to me and sort into piles...one pile is for will never, ever use...one pile is for I will definitely use, but only after washing....last pile is not my choice, but usable for scrappy after washing. The never use pile gets thrown into a bag and out it goes to donate or sometimes trash (some people don't realize that your 40 year old drapes do not make good quilts!)....anything I keep gets washed and then into the appropriate storage container.
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That whole "one man's trash is another man's treasure" surely applies. Surely you can find folks here (DresiArnaz and I for instance) who might love to have some of it (and would pay postage) if you posted photos of what you have.
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Wow. DH told me he saved me. Some one from work found out I attempt to sew and quilt. They gave him a large garbage bag full of fabric. I asked him if it was in the back of his truck. Nope in the dumpster. He said it smelled contagious.
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Getting rid of excess fabric is easy for me. My guild does an annual sale and accepts donations of quilting fabrics - washed or unwashed, any size, any shape. They also accept donations of fabric and batting for charity quilts and cat & dog "cuddles" for the shelter.
Alternatively, and for anything that's not quilting fabrics, there's a local shop called "Legacy" that takes any kind of fabric donations (including UFO's) and also various sewing/crafting supplies/tools and they will sell it; the profits benefit the local senior center. AND, then there's Linus project. My local rep is actually a member here, I've had the pleasure of meeting her in person, so there's yet another place to me to donate fabrics. (I haven't yet, but I should...I have some kid-friendly fabrics I could stand to let go of....) I've been given fabrics a few times and I always tell them that a condition of me taking it is that I will take whatever I can use and then donate the rest. I've never had anybody think that was a bad idea or not give me the fabric - they're just glad to be rid of it and trust that I will do my best to get it somewhere where it will be used. Unless it's gross - I had to toss a big bag full of fabric because rats or mice had gotten into it and I wasn't even going to TRY to salvage any of that nastiness! It went straight from my car into the trash. Ick! |
For the last few years I tell folks that want to gift me with 'a lot of fabric found' in the closet that I will be glad to take it but I will use it for pet beds for the shelter. I want them to know up front what may become of it.
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I TOTALLY agree with your statement. Time to purge and pass it onto a charity group that will be delighted for the donation.
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Originally Posted by bearisgray
(Post 7106278)
The donor may have meant well - or may have been dumping - but I feel no obligation at this point in my life to do any more than say " thank you for thinking of me " with that stuff.
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