When our grandaughter got married just before Christmas, we filled large clear glass vases with purple and silver Christmas orniments as her table decoration. They put some cards around on the tables inviting guests to take a few of them home with them. I have never been to a wedding that gave each guest a gift so I wouldn't be expecting one. I personally think much to much is spent on lavish weddings. It's become a status symbole to spend poor dad into the poor house.