My adult son moved back home 3 weeks ago. I was away for a week's business trip--- when I got home, my son said, "why haven't you taken the pillow to DH yet? I don't know how you live with him. (not his father) I laughed. Then my DH said, "How can you put up with the DS? " I laughed. Both said they missed me and my "nagging". Guess they need a traffic controller here to tell them what to do.
Men are impossible- at any age.