my son leaves his clothes in the dryer. so now I throw them on his bed, I ask him constantly to not leave his clothes in the dryer. The only thing that gets my goat as far as DH Is when I ask him to do something for me it dose not get done, but if its something for him its done so fast, I will keep him, because I love him, and right know with all the pain I am in I am not easy to live with right now, I am grumpy or depressed, and He has to cook 90% of the time because the pain is so bad. God bless. Penny