I love the seperate room idea. I haven't had a good night sleep in 17 years. I have dealt with the bed hogging, snoring, elbows, the alarm clock going off 10x before he decides to get up, oh and there are many more. I lay right on the edge of the bed with my arms over my head, how rediculous is that? I am getting a bit cranky these days and he wonders why. HMMM!!! I have learned to let his socks lay where he leaves them until he figures it out. I get so embarrassed by one thing, he will put his sleeping boxers on the bed post in the morning and I just want to die when I see them there. I haven't said anything because he would enjoy that too much. I am trying to figure a way to deal with that one. There are guys on this board, explain this stuff to us, why and what goes through those heads? I am not saying I am perfect but I can promise you I don't leave unmentionables laying around where God and the whole world can see them.