I am so sorry to hear of all your troubles concerning your grandchildren, I have been in the same perdictment. I used all of our savings to fight for my grandchild as he was being severley mentally abused. I quit my trucking job to provide a stable home for him, I did everything I could do and lost the case, it was so heartbreaking to have that happen. My prayers and thoughts are with you as I know you feel so hopeless. You just have to trust that god will watch over the child for you.Please keep in close contact at times it might be hard I battled a step mother that kept changing the phone number, never gave my grandchild gifts or letters I sent. I spent a lot of time crying and praying. When he was 15 he got to come visit me and I refused to send him back home. and they didn't fight me I was able to keep him untill he turned 18. It was well worth the fight. I will pray for you and the kids and that mom will do the right thing