Please go to your daughter's home for her sake if not yours.It will spoil her chrismas if your not there and I'm sure you could be very helful to her,what with all the people she is having another pair of hands would be greatly appreciated.I know I always feel best when I'm being helpful and needed.Time will fly and you will have a great christmas.Amazing PS my daughter lives too far away to get home for christmas but oh how I wish I could spend it with her...and her family