I have watched this show in a bit of awe at the lifestyle choice by these women. i do not recall naything being said about them being on welfare. He is employed in advertising and is well-paid and Janelle has a good job. Up until recently Merri was employed - she lost her job after the show went on TV. The only one who is at home full-time is Christine.. They have asked the older kids what they think about the lifestyle - some want it as adults and some want a monogamous relationship. I don'tagree w/the choice but it is their life and their choice. do feel a bit sorry for the kids but they do live in a community where it is more acceptable than it woyld be where I live. Just gotta say - live and let live.