Since I have 15 grand children & 6 greats, I no longer send "presents" too expensive. Instead I send checks to their mom & mom has the choice to give cash to the kids (that's the easiest for teenagers) or pick out a gift, wrap it & put it under the tree from "Grammy". I am making quilts for all the grands and greats, but I do them one at a time and send when finished (I've only finished 2) so I am not pressured to get done by birthdays or Christmas. I call them my "just because I love you quilts" and yes, children in one familie do not get all of them at the same time. Their special time will come. Take care of yourself. Blessings on you and your dh, hope surgery goes well.