My in-laws stopped giving my husband and me gifts probably 10 years ago because...well, because they don't like me. But that doesn't stop us from giving them gifts, for two reasons:
1. We still want to give to our nieces and nephew, and...
2. Giving is what family does. Just because they don't like me doesn't mean they're not part of my family. If they don't like what I make or buy for them they can bin it, no skin off my nose.
Success is in the action, not the reaction.
Do whatever YOU want to do!