Holidays can just be downright hard. We've never had children, so I've always decorated just for us and my parents/brothers and friends to stop by. Since my Mom passed away, its been hard to decorate and enjoy everything..but my DH loves it and won't allow me not to do it. Its his fav part of the holiday..so I work for several days putting it all up. I enjoy it too once its done..but I just need to invite some people over so we can really get in the spirit!