Darlin' Pray for strength and peace for yourself and look up bible verses to use as the quilt stitching all around and through out the final process...then ask the Lord to bind the fellows ill temper and foul mouth...and then keep the little youngin's encased in prayer of protection. In time the Lord will heal him or remove his poor influences. But most of all he will be under conviction to come to the Lord. Just remember With GOD...All Things Are Possible. Love In Christ.