Congrats to both of you , it is one of the hardest things to do. I have a son who came home when he was 19 years old and said he needed help. he has been straight and sober for 25 years. I am so proud of him, he has many reasons to have given up,his wife left him with 5 kids, one of which had downs,life has been real hard for him but he just takes one day at a time.