I am reminded of my son's bride-to be requested a crocheted bedspread for their wedding. I was happy to comply, and when it was finished a few weeks before the wedding, she very sweetly asked if she could have it early. She wanted to show it to her college friends, who were giving a tea for her. In the end, she showed it at every party she had (7) and was very happy for the gift. needless to say, my son was also very happy with the situation. This was in 1974. they still have the bedspread, in good condition. It is definitely used.