My husband of 38 years and I were "ordered" to meet. I was a nurse in the Air Force and he was working for a Colonel. waiting to start flight training. The col. called me in the clinic and then gave the phone to my husband and said "here she is". We made a date to meet at the officer's club after work a few days later; we both figured we'd each have our own car, we could tell the colonel we met and that would be that!