Your SIL is not your keeper ! If you want to take any of her advice to you, then take what you need of it and move on, but just because they helped you after your accident, doesn't mean she can dictate what you should or should not do. After all, you have helped her too. I happen to think people quilt to satisfy their creative instinct, and the need to do that is just in you. I have seen people who are quite creatively talented, but get caught up in jobs and other things in life, and don't satisfy that creative instinct, and get bogged down in depression. Keep those creative juices going, and tell your SIL you are doing what makes YOU happy, and she should find her niche and do the same ! I'll get off my soap box now :)