This is sounding good. I know he'll have an overnight stay. The PROBLEM is that I take care of him while my son is at work and he'll be working during the party. None of this was supposed to turn out like this - scheduling nightmare with everyone closely involved! If I have to stay home with Tonsil Boy then I'd be missing Birthday Boy's party. So ... I'll stop fretting over it. Worst case senario - my husband can come a bit late to the party and bring the tonsil one with him. Then everyone's there except the uncle, just not there all the time.