i to am having a problem with my son he has a live in g/f of about 4 years now and she doesnt like none of his family so we have nothing to do with her and he blames us all so he doesnt call or come see me which i only live like 30 minutes away so i had to back off and put up my doors to keep from getting hurt any more than i am being hurt now from his actions..hes chose her over his own family with no reason other than hes inlove...so i have let him have his choice and i walked away...i havent even been in his house for 2 years now and he came out here for xmas but he acted mad all the while he was here so i wish he had just stayed with her cuz i want him here cuz he wants to be here not out of the fact he has to cuz im his mom...oh well he will regret this time hes lost someday and no one to blame but his self...sorry didnt mean to vent on all of u but when i read what joan_quilts said it touched a nerve...lol thanks for listening