Yes, you need a hug [[[ ]]]!! Some really don't care what they say to others, especially when they don't feel good. That may have been the elderly man's problem. It's not a good excuse but his opinions may have reflected his wife's way of quilting and she may be gone, causing him more pain. Anyway, he should not have reacted that way. You, walked away, holding your head up!! :thumbup: Your quilt is beautiful and you have every right to be proud of it! Don't let others control you by what they say. It's not easy, I know!