What a beautiful quilt! Such a gift of love :->>
My mother had dementia so I feel your pain. Before she passed, when I went to visit sometimes I was me, sometimes I was my sister, sometimes I was HER sister, sometimes I was just a nice person visiting - I just let her think she had a lot of company! :->>
For anyone who wants to read or listen to audio books for help/insight, Mom's Dr suggested: The 36 Hour Day (especially for caregivers!); Aging with Grace (will help you understand); and most recently Gail Sheehy's new book: Passages for Caregivers (for any terminal situation). They all helped me so thought I'd pass it on.