I was told once that I try to find the good in people when there really isn't any. That hurt me, but maybe I do find something good where other won't. I don't give praise unless I see something that I like. And I would rather look for something good than look for the negative. Remember the old adage...if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all. Why hurt someone's feelings. If they ask for help or advice then that's different.