What is wrong with old ladies? The world is full of those lucky enough to make another birthday. I will soon be 80 and with the work I put out in a day,including a part time job as a telemarketer, it does not leave me time for the rocking chair. He needs to find something to do besides giving you grief about your companions. He has much to be thankful for. You are doing something constructive, keeping house, him fed, instead of running the streets looking looking for trouble. Hey, he could even learn to quilt. By the way, how old is he. Could be he is too old for you.