I finally found one I love. Its a style, not a brand. It's called a balcony, a balconette, or a semi demi. It fits kinda like a shelf. The girls set up there and stay put. Doesn't pull them apart and no "extras" poking out like a normal cup does. I'm kinda in between cup sizes a 40 D or DD. The straps are more toward the shoulders and not in the normal spot. So no digging. And they're pretty for a change. I think they might be called a Harlow sometimes too. These control very well. I work road construction. A lot of bending, lifting, straining and now the girls are not in the way and I'm not all the time "adjusting". The only downside is no "high pocket" anymore.