Rita's mom-I do understand. My son is now 38,when he was a young teen(14)his buddy Kirk was killed by his uncle.(shot to death)He killed the whole family also his own wife.He also had another friend Danny. He is in prison and has spent most of his adult life there. His other friend was Darell he overdosed on legal pain meds. The 4 of them were very close growing up. Small town only 750 now Sooo sad and senseless.Like you said hug and kiss them alot.Tell them you love them all the time.They could be gone the next second.My son wanted to spend the night at Kirks after fishing I said no,not on a school night. He would have been dead also. God was watching over him.God bless all of you and take care. Mary