Thanks everyone great advice so far my guest list is 180 plus people but with this family I will be lucky it a 1/4 of them show....So I am gonna keep invitiing people and just ask the to rsvp so I have an idea for the amount of food I need...
On of his sisters (his and mine and hubbys Favorite) is already refusing to come because she is the one usualy picked on..Hubby is going to try to talk to her and I am going to write a note to everyone asking them to leave the past in the past and let my fil enjoy the day that is all about him
My kids requested I make potato salad, hubby asked for maccaroni salad I am making a big cake to look like a tool box and chocolates and cooks that look like tools...A friend offered to help with the chocolate and cookies and my mom might help with making food if I buy the stuff
Big problem right now is DECORATIONS...so far my only idea is bright colors.....lol
Thanks everyone for all you help