Joy, I am a new quilter as well...we learn as we go...our hearts in each and every piece we do,,,the joy is not in the perfection...but in the creation. The time and love it takes to be a caregiver is going to show through in your quilting...both take a lot of heart. Did anyone teach you how to be a caregiver?...I think you learn each and every day...the same with quilting. So my friend...be happy...be proud...and thank God for the gifts he has given you...your family is truly BLESSED. Have a great day...and Happy Quilting