Hang on, it will get better. I promise you that. I get so overwhelmed at times, and then I give up on the one thing that I love so much, my quilting. Please allow yourself at least an hour a day, to just do things for you and no one else. You deserve that. Eventually you will get all the pieces together with housework and quilting. Maybe make a schedule and stick by that for a while, and it will feel natural in no time.