AMEN!!! I raised my 2 the way I was raised and tried to do the same with grandchildren. It pays off!! 2 kids who have made me very proud and 1 GD in military, 1 loving GD age 6 and GS, 9, who is all A honor roll, Soar for gifted children, opens doors for ladies, yes/no madam or sir, please/thank you, helps older persons pack grocery and load them, refuses money for his help, turned in [2] purses found at Walmart and 1 credit card.
YES, the old way is the best and it pays off in the future. It breaks my heart to see some of the younger generation so lost and ill mannered!!!!