Anyone that has strong opinions where their stash ends up after death better get directions in a will right now. When family members are left with a chore of sorting and packing feelings change. It comes down to just getting it over.
I would never leave my DDs the chore of deciding what to do with mom's stuff. What they don't want to keep will be packed up by movers and donated. Over and done with. I don't see why anyone would care what happens to stuff after they die, it's for certain you won't know a thing about it.