Not just quilting either! Now that the kids are raised and DH knows he can survive without being up my butt all day I am getting very selfish with my time. I am a member of many community programs. I am giving up most of them. Just not enough time to committee fundraisers, festivals, activities, events and do so much planning. I can sponsor, that's easy just write a check! LOL I plan on doing what I want to do with every minute of my day and say "No I don't want to" much much more.