Applause to you for taking the quilt back and giving it to someone who loves and appreciates it ! I am with you on not giving the ingrate another gift. I don't think anyone who is that rude deserves a gift of any kind. I wouldn't be surprised if someone that gutsy and rude doesn't ask you where the replacement gift is. If that happens, I would tell her she is not getting one, and I would tell her exactly why.