I give tree skirts for wedding gifts to close family members and close friends. They don't get them at the wedding but they do get it before their first christmas. sometimes I put some of their wedding pictures on the tree skirts and their dates and maybe a few words of they song. So tell them what you are going to give them and give it to them at a later date. Most of the time they open their gifts the next day or after honeymoon and they have so many things that a new gift later will be really appreciated also