DH is a jem!! I never hide my stash. Usually he does not pay attention to what I buy -- after 43 years we trust each other. We go to car shows, sometimes driving 1000 miles and he always allows extra time so I can hit the quilt shops on the way. For my birthday and Christmas, he always gives me a gift certificate to my favorite LQS. When my BFF could no longer go on the quilt shop hops, he started coming with me (but I had to make sure to only go where he could get a good meal when he got hungry).