Good for you... I was that way about education... and it finally dawned on me that I didnt have to prove anything... (that was after lots of $ and 12 years of college - I am 63 now). Like you, being Mom was always my first priority and still is, even though my son is married and living in another state. I am lucky I have a very sweet daughter-in-law who doesn't mind sharing. But now, my daily routine is quilting and taking time for a cup of tea. I am glad you skipped all the years of "proving" ... they are absolutely unnecessary. I am happy for your early wisdom.