The way I see it, is that if you had answered back to these people the first time they tried to contact you, you wouldn't have felt so threatened. All you had to do is say that you didn't have Misty's top. Since you are all in the same group it may have been nice to have helped try to back track and help her figure out what may have happened? I'm sorry you feel that you have to leave the board. I guess you have to do what you have to do. I thought that the deadline to mail all the tops back was August 15th?