I think you should have a raffle for a quilt every year you have a reunion, or an auction and use the money to set up a saving account for the youngest member of the family or put the money to the care of the eldest member of the family. It would be nice to give the quilt to the eldest, with the rule it has to be handed down to the next person in line, but sometimes things don't go as planned, when other family members are in charge of the person who passed away belongings.