Wow. I tried marriage twice and failed both times. Well the first one we were too young and the second was the bad kind you all have been talking about. No physical abuse but plenty of every other kind. I had a $5 a week allowance to spend on clothes or anything I wanted for the house. And got constant critisism for not looking like all the other wives in the neighbor hood. He left me for someone younger. someone said it is the type of home you grow up in and I grew up with my grand parents. Old school all the way. No nice just abuse. I decided after the second no more husbands. lol I buy what I want when I want. Although didn't do much of that while I was working or now with disability but I can't tell you how good it felt the first month after he left and I paid all the bills myself in my own apartment even though I had about $2 left over. LOL
Oh and I heard that the second might want to make nice now that he is old and alone. I laughed myself sick. He sure wouldn't want to know me now. NOW I would use the skillet.