I think the two things most confusing to me that I have heard folks have really strong opinions about: 1. pre washing fabric. 2. to steam or not to steam. interesting, and I still don't know the answer, although I have sewn quilts and not prewashed, and they have been gorgeous even after washing. (okay, I held my breath.) Pre washing is kind of a pain. I used to do it all the time. And I steam (carefully) Who knows what the right thing is to do?