Stitchinb,
Many of us have felt that way. I currently have at least one quilt that I've put aside for now. My reason is that I had relatives say in a disgusted way 'Ugh, who is this for?" I was making it for them. Not any more. They will not receive a quilt from me in the future.
Good luck. I'm sure it has something to do with the direction your rows have been sewn in. Eventually you'll pick it up and use your seam rippers and fix it.
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