I'm so sorry for you and the kids loss. I'm glad your not going to move anytime soon, that might be a lil much on top of what you have just lost. You shouldn't rush to make to any big changes in your family just now.
The nerve of that hide. My Grandpa always said there are 2 kinds of women Hides and Ladies. And he said I had better be a lady. Hugs to you and yours in your time of grief. Donna