Most of the quilts on our beds go under the bedspread, so now matter what they look like, they get used and keep us warm. I was taught that part of being gracious was to make a gift giver feel appreciated, so no matter what one truly thinks about a gift, the giver is thanked and you make a positive statement about the gift. Once it goes to my house I can do whatever is most convenient for me. I really don't think anyone ever gives a gift thinking "bet they will really hate this one" except maybe my dh who loves to buy the worst possible gift he can find for chinese gift exchanges. lol