I think that you should take advantage of the offer. The king size quilting frame usually breaks down into pieces, and you can sell that and perhaps share the money with your friend. My sister in law threw out into the garbage all her mother's fabric, and never asked me if I wanted it. She didn't think I wanted her mother's "old" stuff. Take a day to go through the rest of the larger, take what you can use, and then Pass on the plenty to friends and organizations. The universe is generous to those who are generous. Accept the gift graciously, take what you can use, and pass it on. Pay it forward.