that is a really beautiful topper! i think you will get the binding right and your friend will love it. i am a new sewer/quilter and you should see the mess i am trying to quilt now!! i don't know what i am doing but am real glad i have FIVE seam rippers. that is my plan for today - seam ripping. just remember - never quit and this is just a way to learn. i understand frustration after you work so hard to make it right, but don't be hard on yourself for imperfections in your quilt. it is all good! i am way too new to this to give you actual advice that you can use to fix the binding but thank the lord there are so many good quilters here that are willing to help! good luck !!