I agree with previous posters and say just go for a "baby" quilt and dont worry about the parent's professions. And I can say with all honesty be glad its a girl...there are sooooo many girl orientated fabrics and panels out there that I'm sure you will have a hard time narrowing it down. I am currently making two baby quilts for two different baby boys and oh my goodness boy orientated fabrics are not that plentiful!
I too like baby quilts that are interactive. Both of the quilts I am doing are the same panel but one is blue and the other is orange/green. Its an alphabet quilt where each letter has an object that starts with that letter. Everyone always says how useful they are at entertaining a child in a waiting room.
I say, do a google image search for baby quilts and see if anything you find inspires you. Afterall, the quilt could become more of a chore than a joy if you are doing a pattern that you dislike.